Sunday, December 18, 2005

Friends and Lovers

Good friends are worth more than all the riches in the world. I spent last night in the company of my true family - they may not be related to me by blood, but we are all such kindred spirits that, in many ways, we are closer than family.

They were all so excited at the prospect of meeting Soulmate. I had been slightly afraid that they would think things were moving too quickly, but I should've known better.

Apparently it is true - MH and another friend, CG, keep telling me that people have been calling them after running into me in the store and asking what's going on with Anysara, she's positively glowing. My best friends in the world must've picked up on this, too.

We told all the old stories and laughed until we cried - something I hadn't realized I had been sorely missing.

They asked about Soulmate and the connection we have in spite of only having seen each other once in the flesh.

I told them that, all my life I had looked for people who were like me - kindred spirits who connected on some cosmic level. In my senior year of college, I found this connection with this particular group of friends. I knew we'd be together (in spirit and thought if not in body) for the rest of our lives. Then I told them that I had found this same connection with Soulmate only on a deeper and much more absolute level.

This blog entry isn't coming off the way I wanted. The intangible is refusing to be put on paper. Let me at least say this to all my loyal friends (cyber and otherwise) who continue to daven for me and who bring me so much joy and bracha:

We should always have friends with whom we can laugh until we cry and we should all merit a life with our own Soulmate.

Thank you.

9 Comments:

At 18 December, 2005 19:01, Blogger Josh said...

Well said. Anyone who can look at you and notice a mood swing - happy or sad - and want to be a part of it is a treasure. Most people need an invitation before they even notice somebody else's feelings, so the one's that go out of their way to share in your life are the best.

 
At 19 December, 2005 15:08, Blogger Over The Rainbow said...

I know exactly what you mean. The people that are closest to me and who know me better than anyone else are not related to me at all. They are also the ones who have proven to be the most loyal.

I am very happy for you.

Sincerely,

overtherainbow

 
At 19 December, 2005 18:42, Blogger SemGirl said...

Amen ..I hope you are a Calla real soon.. I hope I am a Calla, soon..

 
At 20 December, 2005 09:48, Blogger MC Aryeh said...

Amen! Kindred spirits are a rare find, but when you do find them, it changes your perception of the world into a place where you belong. So happy they are all so excited for you...

You are making the rest of us single folk into believers...

 
At 21 December, 2005 08:37, Blogger BlogBlond said...

okay, datingmaster- you are a big fat jerk to try to rain on her parade- and it's no wonder you've mastered dating but not relationships... who barfed in your oatmeal this morning???

 
At 21 December, 2005 09:19, Blogger Sarah said...

We love Blogblond... :)

 
At 21 December, 2005 11:30, Blogger Chabad Chammer said...

Good response Blog_Blond. You rock!

 
At 21 December, 2005 19:39, Blogger SemGirl said...

Blond .... ditto..

DM If you cant say something nice and supportive keep your mouth shut and stay off the keyboard..

 
At 22 December, 2005 14:35, Blogger Esther Kustanowitz said...

semgirl, if everyone held by what you're suggesting, there'd be no blogosphere at all...

Anysara, seriously, I know what you mean. I hope the glow persists, that you continue to be able to recognize the soulmates who surround you, and that none of them give you any reason for sadness.

 

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